Make Her Smile - Proven Ways

When it comes to relationships, we can lose sight in the day-to-day madness of our career-driven lives. You don't always have to resort to out-of-box gestures and grand plans to impress your partner, small gestures like sending her a random 'I Miss You' text message or preparing her favourite meal can go a long way in stabalising any relationship. As the cliché goes, you have to be her friend as well as her lover, and that's exactly what makes a relationship so amazing. Here are a few, easy and quick things you can do to let her know she is special and always on your mind.

1) Record a voice memo for her 

Girls love to know they are appreciated and loved by those close to them. So, while you can pick up the phone and remind her about the same, anytime, it's actually quite fun and unique if you record a love message telling her how special she is and send that across. It will catch her off guard but not before leaving a smile on her face. 

2) Send a cab to pick her up

At the end of a long, boring and annoying day at work or running around the city to attend meetings, the last thing anyone wants is to get on a cramped local train or a metro all the way to home. Make her happy and send a cab to pick her up. She'll be floored by this gesture. 

3) Get creative with emoticons

Call it corny or cheesy, but getting creative with emoticons can actually be hilarious and fun. Create a story, tell her what you want to do and what you have on your mind vis-a-vis emoticons. Get dirty even. Girls love that goofy stuff. Let her respond to your messages with emojis as well. You have to try it to believe it! 

4) Download her favourite TV show

TV series are addictive for a reason and everybody loves to watch them, including your spouse. Especially when she is feeling low, girls want nothing more than to vegetate in front of the television. We suggest downloading an entire season of a show she can indulge in without having to wait for the annoying download time. This is the ultimate pleasant surprise on those low days.

5) Remind her she's awesome

Everyone has bad days at work. And all she needs at that time is a little boost- especially from the man she loves the most. Send her a text, e-mail her or call her, but tell her she is awesome and that she deserves all the success in the world. Want to see her smile reaching her eyes- surprise her by dropping by at her office during the lunch time.

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Add varieties in Relationship

 Add variety to your life

Studies have shown that dullness can lead to dissatisfaction with a relationship. Trying something new can be as simple as visiting an unfamiliar restaurant or as grand as a backpacking trip through Sri Lanka. Discoveries you make together will keep you feeling close.

Play together, stay together

Find a sport or hobby that you both love and make that a priority in your relationship. Trekking, biking, tennis... whatever it is, find something you enjoy doing together.

Talk!

In other words: communicate. Talking out the tough subjects—money, religion, fidelity, raising kids—will not be the most fun you’ve had, but it’ll be valuable.

There’s no shame in seeking therapy

Studies show that couples who seek counselling during rocky periods are more successful in resolving their issues than those who don’t. Whether it’s from a counsellor or mental health professional, getting an expert to help sort out strife is very wise.

Keep your eyes on the prize

Yes, he forgot your friend’s name for the nth time, but it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you. If you keep your perspective fixed on the goal—to be in a happy, functioning partnership—you’re less likely to get tangled up in every minor annoyance. Remember, you both want the same thing—love and happiness.

Two heads are better than one

Being in a relationship means you’ve made a merger. You’ve not only joined assets but inherited the other’s problems as well. Rather than looking at his problems as merely his own, tackle them together. So if he’s gaining weight, rather than pushing him to diet on his own, enroll in a gym together.

I’ll scratch your back if you scratch mine

No one likes demands, but everyone can appreciate a compromise. If you want your partner to do something and you’re not sure he’ll agree, the quickest way to avoid a confrontation is to sweeten the deal. For example: “Sure, I’ll watch the cricket match on Monday if you take me to see the next movie of my choice.”

Fight right

In order to have productive arguments, keep these rules in mind: Don’t call your spouse names. When things get really tough, take a break from the argument. Let the other person finish his/her sentences. Don’t initiate a discussion when you’re angry.

Mind your manners

“Please”, “thank you” and “you’re welcome” can go a long way in helping your partner remember that you respect and love each other and don’t take them for granted.

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Daily Romantic Checklist

 

Daily Romantic Checklist

1. Always compliment your lover.
2. Tell your lover how much you love him.
3. Say ‘I love u’ atleast seven times daily.
4. Spend atleast an hour together daily.
5. Give surprises or do some unexpected gesture.
6. Always call in to find out how things are with your partner.
7. Hug your partner first thing when you get up in the morning.

Weekly Romantic Checklist

1. Make it a point to spend a whole day together.
2. Do something which both of you enjoy doing together.
3. Cook her a meal.
4. Give your partner a surprise gift.
5. Give one another a good body massage followed with u-know-what.
6. Go out for a movie together.
7. Plan something special for the upcoming weekend.

Monthly Romantic Checklist

1. Plan to go out for a short trip during the weekend.
2. Go out for dinner atleast twice every month.
3. Make love more often.
4. Watch atleast two romantic movies.
5. Take your lover out for shopping and give her/him a beautiful gift.

Yearly Romantic Checklist

1. Think of an unusual way to celebrate your partner’s birthday.
2. Make a new years resolution to be more creatively romantic.
3. Make Plans for your next anniversary.
4. Create a special ‘Romance’ category in your household budget.
5. Go out for a long vacation once in a year.
6. Plan out your next vacation.

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BODY LANGUAGE IN LOVE

You are in love but you do not know whether she/he also loves you. Well one way is to ask him/her but if you are the shy kind then here is a way by which you can come to a positive or negative conclusion.

Try On Body Language
Focus
If you’re interested in someone, you focus and pay attention. If you’re not interested in someone, your attention wanders. So if you’re sitting with the person you like, and he/she is looking at you when you’re talking, that’s a great sign. The eyes have it all and thus if the person is not interested he/she will keep looking out the window, or watching other girls/men.

Dilated eyes
As they say “The eyes are the window to the soul.” Thus while you are talking to the person you like, your eye pupils dialate (get bigger) when you’re excited. So if someone’s eyes look really big, it shows they’re interested. Thus keep your eyes on him/her and observe the eyes.

Lip and Mouth Activities
A girl might bite her lip gently, or run her tongue along her lip to show that she is interested. Some girls even do this deliberately to flirt, although it rarely looks natural. If you’re a girl, don’t try it, unless you’re really sure it looks natural.

Hair
Fiddling and playing with hair is one way to show that you are interested. Girls wrap their fingers in their hair. Guys run their hands through their hair. Note that twirling your hair is more a sign of boredom and distraction.

Arms and Hands
If the girl keeps her arms or hands closed or crossed (which is normal if its cold) then that is a clear indication that she’s not feeling comfortable. Arms that are out and away from her are less ‘defensive’. Also, if the woman leaves her wrist-up, it’s sort of an “I trust you” motion.

Legs
Women normally like to sit cross-legged and note that it doesn’t mean that she isn’t interested. So forget about that and concentrate on the toes because, toes tend to react to general body energy. So if someone’s feeling bored and listless, they might just lay there. But if someone is feeling excited and energetic, the toe might make little circles or bounce. Women when are interested point their toes towards the man.

The Voice
The way someone talks and especially the tone of the voice is hugely important. It will instantly tell you whether: Are they bored and weary? Are they thoughtful and quiet? Are they enthused and interested? To find out whether the person is interested in you first watch your own speech and then watch how their speech changes. If someone wants to ‘get along’ with someone else, they naturally match their speech patterns together. If you’re interested in someone, you start to naturally speak like them, using the same tone of voice, the same loudness/softness and speed, the same phrases even.

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Romantic Ideas & Tips

 

1. Five Minutes

If Five Minutes is used while she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. and if you promise her for helping around the house then Five minutes is only five minutes.

2. Nothing

This is the calm before the storm. This means, There must be something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

3. Fine

This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

4. Go Ahead

This is a dare, not permission. Don’t Do It! If you think that you got the permission you are wrong there.

5. Loud Sigh

This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is  wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 2 for the meaning of nothing.)

6. That’s Okay

This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That’s okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7. Thanks

A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you’re welcome.

8. Whatever

Is a woman’s way of saying F– YOU!

9. Don’t worry about it, I got it

Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking ‘What’s wrong?’ For the woman’s response refer to #2.

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100 Romantic Things To Do With Your Life Partner

	1. Fill your life with sweet things.  2. Spend every second possible together.  3. Make sacrifices for each other.   4. Really love each other.
	5. Sit and talk. 6. Whisper to each other  7. Nothing is more precious than a Kiss on the forehead   8. Always hold your wife around her hips/sides.   9. Hold your wife’s hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart. 10. Very lightly push up your wife’s chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
	11. Sing to each other.  12. Dance together.   13. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or with black light.
	14. Buy gifts for each other.  15. Roses   16. Buy your wife a ring.   17. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.   18. Go shopping with your wife.   19. Buy 11 real roses and one fake one…leave a note that says I’ll love you until the last rose dies   20. Buy your wife a lipstick color that you like. 21. Surprise trip for just the two of you or invite another couple.
	22. Wear your life mate’s favorite cologne/perfume every time you’re together.  23. When in public, flirt with each other.  24. Take your wife to dinner.  25. Take your wife to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked. 26. Go on a Picnic 27. Go for a Drive   28. Go Window Shopping   29. Try on new clothes that your husband wants to see you in -in the fitting rooms at the store, or mall!
	30. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love.  31. Find Animals or Figures in the Clouds   32. Visit the beach and Make Sand Castles   33. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.   34. Take her out to the playground on the swings and swing together as if you were both in your teen years Still.
	35. Enter a Contest together  36. Collect Rocks or Leaves   37. Play play-station or Xbox with your husband all night for a change!   38. Fly a Kite   39. Treasure Hunt with clues around the house Plant a garden 40. Turn off the Lights and do everything by Flashlight or Candlelight for a night   41. Play Any Sport
	42. Wear your husband’s clothes. 43. Read to each other   44. Read a novel together   45. Make up Stories   46. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love. And give it to your life mate.   47. Draw (If you can) 48. Make a scrapbook with pictures and memories since the first day you met each other.
	49. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages, including sign language.  50. Do cute things like write “I love you” in a note so that they have to look in the mirror to read it.  51. Put love notes in your life mate’s pockets when they aren’t looking.  52. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
	53. Remember your dreams and tell your life mate about them.  54. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.   55. Share your deepest convictions.   56. Pray together.   57. Act out mutual fantasies together. 58. Describe the joy you feel just to be with your life mate.
	59. French kiss.  60. Dress each other, Undress each other.   61. Kiss every part of your wife’s body.   62. Foreplay   63. Let your wife sit on your lap.   64. Husbands like half-shirts.   65. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you aren’t close enough.   66. Carry your wife to bed. 67. Wake your wife up with a gentle kiss on the lips 68. Never forget the kiss goodnight.   69. always remember to say, “Sweet dreams.”
	70. Watch the sunset together.  71. Make out in the rain.   72. Roll down a hill   73. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.   74. Go to the Park   75. Go to a Farm   76. Go Fishing   77. Go to the Temple   78. Go to a Museum or Historical Site 79. Have a Water Fight
	80. Sit in your car in the driveway, honk, then blow your lifemate a kiss as you leave for work. 81. Make a bag lunch for your wife to take to work with her, include an apple with a love note  82. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say “I love you”.   83. Call from your business trip to tell your life mate you were thinking about them.   84. Make excuses to call your life mate repeatedly in one day.
	85. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistakes twice.  86. Learn to listen.
	87. Walk behind your wife and put your hands in her front pockets.  88. Take advantage of any time alone together.
	89. Give each other a Manicure, Pedicure or Facial.  90. Brush your wife’s hair,  91. Paint your wife’s toenails.   92. Cook for each other   93. Wash the dishes for your wife.   94. Spend time with your husband in the   95. garage-working on his next big project
	96. Set up a tea party for “married couples only”.  97. Call your married friends over once a month and watch each other’s wedding videos, or vacation trips together!  98. Be Prince/Princess Charming to your life mate’s parents. 99. Stand up for your life mate when someone says unkind things about them.   100. Hang out with your life mate’s friends, too.
	101. Take showers together.  102 Hot tubs are great.
	103. Work out together-tell each other you want them around for a life time!  104. Tell your spouse what life would be like without him.  105. Tell your wife you appreciate her having your children.   106. Tell your wife that she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it. 107. Tell your life mate you love the way they look right after they’ve fallen asleep, with their head in your lap.

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