Make Her Smile - Proven Ways

When it comes to relationships, we can lose sight in the day-to-day madness of our career-driven lives. You don't always have to resort to out-of-box gestures and grand plans to impress your partner, small gestures like sending her a random 'I Miss You' text message or preparing her favourite meal can go a long way in stabalising any relationship. As the cliché goes, you have to be her friend as well as her lover, and that's exactly what makes a relationship so amazing. Here are a few, easy and quick things you can do to let her know she is special and always on your mind.

1) Record a voice memo for her 

Girls love to know they are appreciated and loved by those close to them. So, while you can pick up the phone and remind her about the same, anytime, it's actually quite fun and unique if you record a love message telling her how special she is and send that across. It will catch her off guard but not before leaving a smile on her face. 

2) Send a cab to pick her up

At the end of a long, boring and annoying day at work or running around the city to attend meetings, the last thing anyone wants is to get on a cramped local train or a metro all the way to home. Make her happy and send a cab to pick her up. She'll be floored by this gesture. 

3) Get creative with emoticons

Call it corny or cheesy, but getting creative with emoticons can actually be hilarious and fun. Create a story, tell her what you want to do and what you have on your mind vis-a-vis emoticons. Get dirty even. Girls love that goofy stuff. Let her respond to your messages with emojis as well. You have to try it to believe it! 

4) Download her favourite TV show

TV series are addictive for a reason and everybody loves to watch them, including your spouse. Especially when she is feeling low, girls want nothing more than to vegetate in front of the television. We suggest downloading an entire season of a show she can indulge in without having to wait for the annoying download time. This is the ultimate pleasant surprise on those low days.

5) Remind her she's awesome

Everyone has bad days at work. And all she needs at that time is a little boost- especially from the man she loves the most. Send her a text, e-mail her or call her, but tell her she is awesome and that she deserves all the success in the world. Want to see her smile reaching her eyes- surprise her by dropping by at her office during the lunch time.

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5 rules in online dating

The online dating scene is changing and changing fast. All thanks to social media and smart phones which have made staying logged in easier. Here are a few important rules to play by before you enter the online dating game.

Spying!

Everybody check out about their date before meeting them on Google. Checking social media profiles also gives you a decent idea about a person. If you find anything about the profile, pictures or interactions on these platforms inappropriate, back off. But in case you decide to go ahead, meet and then come to a conclusion, do not be all sweet and confess about spying! It will make your date uncomfortable and also guarded about the conversations that follow- both situations aren’t ideal when you are at the ‘getting to know each other’ stage.

Text, text baby!

Take it easy and don’t read between the lines. This is a mantra you have to religiously follow. It is okay if your date doesn’t call you often or at all, till he is keeping a conversation going though texts. With lifestyles getting busier and most people being sleep deprived, there is no scope of talking on the phone till late in the night. Texting acts as an easier option to interact – throughout the day. Also, some conversations and topics are best discussed on texts.

Social media: the new pick up place

Finding someone on social media! Seriously? Yes! Your Facebook or Twitter or even Instagram can play cupid in your life. What’s the plus? You and the prospective date may have friends in common, making it easy for you to dig out information about him. So browse through with an open eye. 

Is he in for the money?

It is scary but true. Many online dating and matchmaking sites hire people to express interest in profiles and to take it to the next level by chatting or having phone conversations. So the guy you are already planning to go on a date with may just be in it for the money. So don’t let your guards down or trust blindly.

Take the lead

Should I call first? Should I ask him out first? Would I sound too desperate? It’s natural for you to ask yourself these and many more questions. But, take a chill pill we say! Relationship experts have it that women, who want to be pursued and chased and don’t want to be the first ones to call, are often mistaken by men as being disinterested. Also, since options are many in the online dating scene, no man wants to put in extra effort and waste time on pursing one.

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Help him change his bad habits

A couple’s lifestyle can go a long way in shaping the future of a relationship. But being patient and putting up with a partner’s quirks is not the only way to save the relationship. We tell you how you can help him get rid of his bad habits.

State the problem and let him think of a solution. But if he doesn’t have any ideas, give an alternative that works for you. Focus on solving the problem, not condemning him for his bad habit.

Keep it to one thing at a time. This means that if you are dealing with the towel on the bed, you are only dealing with the towel on the bed. Wait another day to talk about the hair in the sink or the smelly socks on the floor. It’s best not to tackle more than one issue a day. Otherwise your spouse will begin to feel like one big incompetent failure.

You have more power than you realise. So if you think he’s only having junk food, take control and he will eat better. If he’s spending too much time watching the television, it’s because it fills a void. It helps him relax and fills his time. But if the time is filled by something else, he won’t be watching TV as much. So fill up the time.

Bring it up when you are both relaxed. Don’t comment on the habit right away--it will just turn him off. After dinner is probably a good time because it’s easier to listen when you’re not starving.

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Add varieties in Relationship

 Add variety to your life

Studies have shown that dullness can lead to dissatisfaction with a relationship. Trying something new can be as simple as visiting an unfamiliar restaurant or as grand as a backpacking trip through Sri Lanka. Discoveries you make together will keep you feeling close.

Play together, stay together

Find a sport or hobby that you both love and make that a priority in your relationship. Trekking, biking, tennis... whatever it is, find something you enjoy doing together.

Talk!

In other words: communicate. Talking out the tough subjects—money, religion, fidelity, raising kids—will not be the most fun you’ve had, but it’ll be valuable.

There’s no shame in seeking therapy

Studies show that couples who seek counselling during rocky periods are more successful in resolving their issues than those who don’t. Whether it’s from a counsellor or mental health professional, getting an expert to help sort out strife is very wise.

Keep your eyes on the prize

Yes, he forgot your friend’s name for the nth time, but it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you. If you keep your perspective fixed on the goal—to be in a happy, functioning partnership—you’re less likely to get tangled up in every minor annoyance. Remember, you both want the same thing—love and happiness.

Two heads are better than one

Being in a relationship means you’ve made a merger. You’ve not only joined assets but inherited the other’s problems as well. Rather than looking at his problems as merely his own, tackle them together. So if he’s gaining weight, rather than pushing him to diet on his own, enroll in a gym together.

I’ll scratch your back if you scratch mine

No one likes demands, but everyone can appreciate a compromise. If you want your partner to do something and you’re not sure he’ll agree, the quickest way to avoid a confrontation is to sweeten the deal. For example: “Sure, I’ll watch the cricket match on Monday if you take me to see the next movie of my choice.”

Fight right

In order to have productive arguments, keep these rules in mind: Don’t call your spouse names. When things get really tough, take a break from the argument. Let the other person finish his/her sentences. Don’t initiate a discussion when you’re angry.

Mind your manners

“Please”, “thank you” and “you’re welcome” can go a long way in helping your partner remember that you respect and love each other and don’t take them for granted.

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10 Surprising Things All Wives Should Know About Their Husbands

Whether you recently said "I do" or just celebrated a double-digit anniversary, you can probably spout off a lot of info about your husband-his middle name, where he was born, his favorite food. But knowing these 10 other things can bring you closer than ever. Find out why, and try these relationship strategies to ensure your husband is anything but a mystery. Photo by Getty Images

1. When He Needs Space

Sharing office news, the kids' schedules and the latest neighborhood drama as soon as your husband walks in the door each night can backfire. "Most women want to immediately connect at the end of the day. For a lot of guys, they need their space more than ever then," says Les Parrott III, PhD, a psychology professor and co-author (with wife and marriage therapist Leslie Parrott, EdD) of The Good Fight: How Conflict Can Bring You Closer. Give your hubby a few minutes to unwind when he comes home. You're more likely to get his undivided attention if you wait.

2. When He's Really Listening

If it seems like your husband constantly tunes you out, consider this: Men may look at other areas of the room while still paying attention, according to Deborah Tannen, author of You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation, who reviewed videotapes of same-sex best friends talking. Rather than focus on where your husband's gaze lands during conversations, note how he responds to you. If your words are truly falling on deaf ears, Rachel A. Sussman, a relationship specialist and author of The Breakup Bible, suggests gently telling him you feel he isn't listening; then, let him respond. "Don't accuse or blame him," she advises.

3. The Most Productive Way to Fight…

Arguments happen in any good marriage. But there's a wrong and right way to fight. Through a study conducted to predict how long couples would stay married, researchers discovered, not surprisingly, that yelling during fights often led to divorce-but so did approaching arguments differently from one's spouse (say, one spoke calmly and the other avoided the conversation). "Ask yourself, 'When would I want to have this conversation?'" suggests Sussman. "Then, think about what might work best for your husband." Assessing both your moods can help you pinpoint the best time for a constructive argument.

4. When an Argument is Going Nowhere

For some disagreements, there's just no productive way to fight it out. To find out if you're gearing up for a purposeful fight, rate the importance of the topic. If it's a core value-like how to raise your children or which city to live in-rank it highly. If it's not-like the color of a new bedspread or what to have for dinner-it may not be worth an argument. Next, determine if you and your husband are ready for the discussion. If either of you are "tired, hungry or distracted, don't get into a conversation about something important," Dr. Leslie Parrott advises.

5. Which Topics Set Him Off

Maybe it's talking about his mom's flavorless cooking-or his late nights at work. Dr. Les Parrott says it's important to "know where the emotional landmines are. If you step on one, you can expect an explosion," he says. But you can't avoid all "hot topics." "Find the right space and time to talk about these issues," he suggests. Plus, try to understand your husband's side, and then approach him in a non-threatening way. You might say, "I'm not looking to upset you; I'm just looking for a solution to an issue that's causing me a lot of pain," Sussman offers.

6. How (and When) to Be His Support System

Couples who say they have strong spousal support and face daily stress have 50% higher rates of marriage satisfaction, according to a 2012 study. While wives equate affection and warmth with support, husbands feel supported when they're appreciated, needed and receiving offers to help with errands. Not sure if your hubby needs you? Ask him. "Mindreading is outlawed," says Jackie Black, PhD, a board-certified couples' coach and author of Meeting Your Match: Cracking the Code to Successful Relationships. Volunteer to tackle some tasks on his list so he can recharge. And tell him how much you appreciate him as a partner to give him a boost.

7. When He's Not Loving Your Love Life

If your man isn't showing signs he wants to have sex-perhaps he usually kisses your neck or gives you a telltale look-then it's time to rekindle the fire. Dr. Leslie Parrott says couples reconnect when they try out-of-the-box activities together. "Women experience intimacy through communication, so we often underplay sharing something novel," she says. Plan a date that'll get you both in the mood. Some ideas: Sign up for a race, head to the museum or take a cooking class to, ahem, turn up the heat.

8. How He Views His Role as Husband and Father

Whether it's just you two or you plus kids, you and your husband have equally important family roles. And it's vital that you recognize how he views his part and respect it. "Of course that's a two-way street, but it's even more important for men," says Dr. Les Parrott, who adds that respecting his role helps him feel close to you. Fight the urge to cast your husband into specific parts without his input. And keep in mind that you don't always have to be in sync with parenting. "Differences in temperament and style are key to parents' success and the enjoyment of parenting," Dr. Black says.

9. What His Dream Job (or Vacation or Car) Is

It's easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of day-to-day life, but happy couples discuss "each other's hopes and dreams to build and sustain intimacy," says Dr. Black. Make it a point to regularly talk to your husband about, well, him. Find out his career goals for the next few years-or just hear about his favorite book, TV show or food of the moment. Then, reciprocate by telling him more about you. Communication helps you grow with each other instead of apart.

10. That You Don't Know Everything About Him

No matter how much you communicate with your husband, you can never completely know him, and that's OK. "It's never good to believe you know anything about your partner for sure and therefore not ask," says Dr. Black. "It's vital that you and your husband continually get to know each other," adds Sussman. "If you're growing, you have to continue to catch up with each other." That means there's at least one enjoyable thing you can do each week: get to know-and fall in love with-your husband all over again.

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10 Common Honeymoon Mistakes

Here are some of the most common honeymoon mistakes-don't make them yours!

1.	Forgetting to book a double bed. You may laugh, but it's important when reserving hotels, especially abroad.
2.	Making reservations for an early flight the morning after your wedding. If you're planning an evening reception, you can be sure you're not going to bed early on your wedding night. A later flight may save you from walking bleary-eyed through the airport.
3.	Not carrying a Condom. This may sound strange but most of the honeymooners do forget to carry condoms on their honeymoon. This may happen either because of the hectic and tiring marriage ceremonies or just a simple oversight. Adequate sex protection is a must if you do not intend to get pregnant immediately after your marriage.
4.	Skimping on your accommodations. Maybe on other trips, but not a honeymoon. Even if you think you won't spend much time in your room, you'll be sorry if your accommodations are not special. Probably the most common honeymoon lament we hear is, "I wish we'd spent just a little more and stayed in a deluxe room."
5.	Not setting a honeymoon budget. Before you go, agree about what you'll splurge on and where you'll skimp to avoid any possible money hassles en route.
6.	Letting one person do all the planning. After all, this honeymoon is for both of you. If you do all the work, you'll feel guilty if things don't go perfectly. If you don't take part in the planning, you'll probably end up dissatisfied.
7.	Ignoring cost-saving travel packages. Talk to your travel agent. Many packages will allow you to have all the frills you want...and save you money.
8.	Thinking you have to spend every minute together. You'll both be happier if you plan one or two separate activities on your honeymoon--and think how much fun you'll have sharing your experiences with each other.
9.	Keeping mum about being honeymooners. Don't be bashful...especially with hotels, cruise lines, restaurants...Tell them when you make your reservations and you're likely to enjoy special treatment.
10.	Relying too much on friends and family. Ask for recommendations from friends and family, but don't let yourselves be overly influenced. Follow your own interests.
11.	Not consulting with a travel agent. A capable agent will help you plan a honeymoon that's right for the two of you-- at a price you can afford.

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How to sex up your busy lives

If you are someone who comes home early from work only to continue working from home or takes a day off from work purely for social engagements, then this you've reached the right place.

For modern day couples, where weekends only mean socialising or wrapping up household tasks, love making tends to take a back seat in their to-do list. So, today we thought of telling you how you can sex up your busy lives. Here are our top 5 tips to master the art of lovemaking and let the sparks fly...And did we mention that it's great for your health too?

Keep some time aside

Never treat sex as a burden. The key lies not in thinking about ways to deny it to your partner, but to think of ways how you can enthusiastically boost your sex life. It should be an active de-stressor in your life. After all who would mind a good sex life? Not you for sure! Talk your partner into it if you are in the mood for it tonight. Let things like cleaning, making dinner, attending work calls all be attended well in time. Candle light dinners are a passe, we say dress down for it, take a shower together and let the passion unfold!

Have a gadget-free love making session!

Switch off all your gadgets and gizmos as they can be quite distracting. Let your bedroom be a gadget-free zone. This will help channelise your energy into the one task in your daily life that doesn't need a battery or power chord.

Don't attempt sex marathons

Harsh reality - You are a working professional, and you simply can't afford to miss your morning work meetings just because you indulged in a long sex marathon the previous night. Go for short but effective love making. Besides, these marathons are stuff of romantic movies. They aren't really possible for us mere mortals - especially not every now and then.

Let your touch speak

Do simple things at the right time to reveal to her/him that you are interested! Play with her while she is busy cooking, or send him an erotic message from your phone while he is busy finishing some last minute mails at night, snuggle with each other when you are watching television together.

Less is more!

Less is more, as far your clothes are concerned. Go for sexy night wear, rather than worn out clothes. Play the visual appeal game. And pay plenty of attention to which perfume or cologne you dab on before the action begins.

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Reasons why kissing is great for you

After reading these benefits, you'll no more feel the need to look for excuses to kiss your loved one.

Helps bonding

All of us know that locking lips boosts bonding in a couple. When one kisses, one produces the hormone oxytocin which causes to bond.

Enhances sexual pleasure

Yes, sex does good benefit to your heart as well as your self-esteem and kissing is one of the major component of sex and foreplay. Kissing gives a more pleasurable experience.

Spit treats illnesses

Swapping spit is a great way to ward off viruses especially when kissing is followed by sex. Moreover, kissing also helps build immunity - people who have sex often have greater immunity to fight health issues.

Makes one happy

Kissing releases endophins and endorphins make you happy.If you are depressed, kissing seems to be a better medication than going to a psychologist or popping pills.

Reduces pain

During a heated kissing session, your body releases adrenaline which is said to reduce the feeling of pain. Try pairing locking lips with physical intimacy when you have a headache and see whether it works wonders on your ache.

Lowers stress

If you feel drained and exhausted at the end of the day, blame it on cortisol which is the stress hormone. Kissing lowers cortisol levels and boosts our immune system, endocrine system and brain health. So to de-stress, just steal a kiss your partner and you'll definitely feel better.

Burns calories

Kissing may not burn as many calories as running on a treadmill does but it does pump up your metabolism to about twice its usual rate. So if you're planning to skip gym for a make-out session with your partner, you can do it without feeling guilty. Just make up for the gym session through some energy-boosting kisses. Moreover, kissing also workout out your face and enhances your youthful appearance by tightening your muscles.

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Ideas for Cozy Weeknights

What do you do on weeknights with your hubby apart from watching TV, going out for dinner, inviting friends and snuggling in bed? Well are you out of ideas. If yes, here are few romantic ideas for a cozy weeknight which is fun as well as erotic.

Cook ‘n’ Tell
Cook a few dishes and don’t tell your hobby what you have prepared. Blind-fold him and tell him to identify the dish. If correct he can ask you for a favour and if he is wrong, you get the chance to make him do whatever you can. 

Pamper one another
After making love, give one another a good scrub in the bathtub. You can introduce him to your latest salt scrub while he works a deep conditioner into your scalp. 

Black-out Sex
Create a make-believe blackout once a week. Just switch off the main switch and don’t forget to even unplug the telephone. An hour of technology-free time will heighten your senses and bring passion back into your life.

Play a sexy game
Fetch Chutes and Ladders from the kids closet and play an erotic ‘strip’ game together. You remove an item of your own clothing each time you slide down a chute, and you get to remove one garment from your opponent every time you climb a ladder. 

Grooming
Trade grooming tasks. Have your hubby give your hair 100 strokes, then offer to file his fingernails. You can also get him to give you a body massage and vice versa.

After dinner walk
Go for a walk and talk and listen. Talk about your future plans, about work, about kids and about plans that have been getting pushed aside. Have a good conversation for that’s the most important thing in a good relationship.

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7 Golden Rules for Love

1. Try and forget “me and mine” and “you and yours” and start thinking “we and our.”
2. Learn to express your feelings for love.
3. Unrealistic expectations lead to disappointment and frustration.
4. Be caring and be loyal to each other.
5. Healthy communication plays a role of oxygen in love life.
6. The way of expressing love and the form of love changes with time and age and we have to accept this truth.
7. Sex is a physical form of expressing the feelings of love. Complete non-acceptance or excessive of sex, both are dangerous for love life.

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10 Rules for Marriage management

1.    In Relation, There is always a scope to reform and rebuild the communication.
2.    Duration of marriage and increase in age will not hamper the sexual interest.
3.    Love is a matter of feeling, but feeling needs to be expressed.
4.    To live as husband and wife is living together, but this should not be on the cost of individual’s own living style.
5.    Living together as husband and wife does not mean to get suppressed by responsibilities but it is wise to be together and carry the responsibility together.
6.    It is not necessary to always prove your view to the life partner but need to take his or her opinion and try to analyze and react softly to his or her views.
7.    In relation, it is not necessary that a third person gets involved for say “short lived” period is a person who can break the relationship you have with your partner, that person is like a tempest which comes and goes.
8.    In relation to prolong the trust, never try and impose ownership on your partner, give space for breathing which will build a TRUST
9.    Rather being perfect partner, always try to be a partner who is full of love.
10.    If you desire your partner to behave in a manner that you like, try and behave with your partner the way you expect him/her to behave.

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Daily Romantic Checklist

 

Daily Romantic Checklist

1. Always compliment your lover.
2. Tell your lover how much you love him.
3. Say ‘I love u’ atleast seven times daily.
4. Spend atleast an hour together daily.
5. Give surprises or do some unexpected gesture.
6. Always call in to find out how things are with your partner.
7. Hug your partner first thing when you get up in the morning.

Weekly Romantic Checklist

1. Make it a point to spend a whole day together.
2. Do something which both of you enjoy doing together.
3. Cook her a meal.
4. Give your partner a surprise gift.
5. Give one another a good body massage followed with u-know-what.
6. Go out for a movie together.
7. Plan something special for the upcoming weekend.

Monthly Romantic Checklist

1. Plan to go out for a short trip during the weekend.
2. Go out for dinner atleast twice every month.
3. Make love more often.
4. Watch atleast two romantic movies.
5. Take your lover out for shopping and give her/him a beautiful gift.

Yearly Romantic Checklist

1. Think of an unusual way to celebrate your partner’s birthday.
2. Make a new years resolution to be more creatively romantic.
3. Make Plans for your next anniversary.
4. Create a special ‘Romance’ category in your household budget.
5. Go out for a long vacation once in a year.
6. Plan out your next vacation.

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BODY LANGUAGE IN LOVE

You are in love but you do not know whether she/he also loves you. Well one way is to ask him/her but if you are the shy kind then here is a way by which you can come to a positive or negative conclusion.

Try On Body Language
Focus
If you’re interested in someone, you focus and pay attention. If you’re not interested in someone, your attention wanders. So if you’re sitting with the person you like, and he/she is looking at you when you’re talking, that’s a great sign. The eyes have it all and thus if the person is not interested he/she will keep looking out the window, or watching other girls/men.

Dilated eyes
As they say “The eyes are the window to the soul.” Thus while you are talking to the person you like, your eye pupils dialate (get bigger) when you’re excited. So if someone’s eyes look really big, it shows they’re interested. Thus keep your eyes on him/her and observe the eyes.

Lip and Mouth Activities
A girl might bite her lip gently, or run her tongue along her lip to show that she is interested. Some girls even do this deliberately to flirt, although it rarely looks natural. If you’re a girl, don’t try it, unless you’re really sure it looks natural.

Hair
Fiddling and playing with hair is one way to show that you are interested. Girls wrap their fingers in their hair. Guys run their hands through their hair. Note that twirling your hair is more a sign of boredom and distraction.

Arms and Hands
If the girl keeps her arms or hands closed or crossed (which is normal if its cold) then that is a clear indication that she’s not feeling comfortable. Arms that are out and away from her are less ‘defensive’. Also, if the woman leaves her wrist-up, it’s sort of an “I trust you” motion.

Legs
Women normally like to sit cross-legged and note that it doesn’t mean that she isn’t interested. So forget about that and concentrate on the toes because, toes tend to react to general body energy. So if someone’s feeling bored and listless, they might just lay there. But if someone is feeling excited and energetic, the toe might make little circles or bounce. Women when are interested point their toes towards the man.

The Voice
The way someone talks and especially the tone of the voice is hugely important. It will instantly tell you whether: Are they bored and weary? Are they thoughtful and quiet? Are they enthused and interested? To find out whether the person is interested in you first watch your own speech and then watch how their speech changes. If someone wants to ‘get along’ with someone else, they naturally match their speech patterns together. If you’re interested in someone, you start to naturally speak like them, using the same tone of voice, the same loudness/softness and speed, the same phrases even.

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Romantic Ideas & Tips

 

1. Five Minutes

If Five Minutes is used while she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. and if you promise her for helping around the house then Five minutes is only five minutes.

2. Nothing

This is the calm before the storm. This means, There must be something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

3. Fine

This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

4. Go Ahead

This is a dare, not permission. Don’t Do It! If you think that you got the permission you are wrong there.

5. Loud Sigh

This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is  wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 2 for the meaning of nothing.)

6. That’s Okay

This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That’s okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

7. Thanks

A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you’re welcome.

8. Whatever

Is a woman’s way of saying F– YOU!

9. Don’t worry about it, I got it

Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking ‘What’s wrong?’ For the woman’s response refer to #2.

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100 Romantic Things To Do With Your Life Partner

	1. Fill your life with sweet things.  2. Spend every second possible together.  3. Make sacrifices for each other.   4. Really love each other.
	5. Sit and talk. 6. Whisper to each other  7. Nothing is more precious than a Kiss on the forehead   8. Always hold your wife around her hips/sides.   9. Hold your wife’s hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart. 10. Very lightly push up your wife’s chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.
	11. Sing to each other.  12. Dance together.   13. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or with black light.
	14. Buy gifts for each other.  15. Roses   16. Buy your wife a ring.   17. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.   18. Go shopping with your wife.   19. Buy 11 real roses and one fake one…leave a note that says I’ll love you until the last rose dies   20. Buy your wife a lipstick color that you like. 21. Surprise trip for just the two of you or invite another couple.
	22. Wear your life mate’s favorite cologne/perfume every time you’re together.  23. When in public, flirt with each other.  24. Take your wife to dinner.  25. Take your wife to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked. 26. Go on a Picnic 27. Go for a Drive   28. Go Window Shopping   29. Try on new clothes that your husband wants to see you in -in the fitting rooms at the store, or mall!
	30. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love.  31. Find Animals or Figures in the Clouds   32. Visit the beach and Make Sand Castles   33. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.   34. Take her out to the playground on the swings and swing together as if you were both in your teen years Still.
	35. Enter a Contest together  36. Collect Rocks or Leaves   37. Play play-station or Xbox with your husband all night for a change!   38. Fly a Kite   39. Treasure Hunt with clues around the house Plant a garden 40. Turn off the Lights and do everything by Flashlight or Candlelight for a night   41. Play Any Sport
	42. Wear your husband’s clothes. 43. Read to each other   44. Read a novel together   45. Make up Stories   46. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love. And give it to your life mate.   47. Draw (If you can) 48. Make a scrapbook with pictures and memories since the first day you met each other.
	49. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages, including sign language.  50. Do cute things like write “I love you” in a note so that they have to look in the mirror to read it.  51. Put love notes in your life mate’s pockets when they aren’t looking.  52. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
	53. Remember your dreams and tell your life mate about them.  54. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.   55. Share your deepest convictions.   56. Pray together.   57. Act out mutual fantasies together. 58. Describe the joy you feel just to be with your life mate.
	59. French kiss.  60. Dress each other, Undress each other.   61. Kiss every part of your wife’s body.   62. Foreplay   63. Let your wife sit on your lap.   64. Husbands like half-shirts.   65. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you aren’t close enough.   66. Carry your wife to bed. 67. Wake your wife up with a gentle kiss on the lips 68. Never forget the kiss goodnight.   69. always remember to say, “Sweet dreams.”
	70. Watch the sunset together.  71. Make out in the rain.   72. Roll down a hill   73. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.   74. Go to the Park   75. Go to a Farm   76. Go Fishing   77. Go to the Temple   78. Go to a Museum or Historical Site 79. Have a Water Fight
	80. Sit in your car in the driveway, honk, then blow your lifemate a kiss as you leave for work. 81. Make a bag lunch for your wife to take to work with her, include an apple with a love note  82. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say “I love you”.   83. Call from your business trip to tell your life mate you were thinking about them.   84. Make excuses to call your life mate repeatedly in one day.
	85. Learn from each other and don’t make the same mistakes twice.  86. Learn to listen.
	87. Walk behind your wife and put your hands in her front pockets.  88. Take advantage of any time alone together.
	89. Give each other a Manicure, Pedicure or Facial.  90. Brush your wife’s hair,  91. Paint your wife’s toenails.   92. Cook for each other   93. Wash the dishes for your wife.   94. Spend time with your husband in the   95. garage-working on his next big project
	96. Set up a tea party for “married couples only”.  97. Call your married friends over once a month and watch each other’s wedding videos, or vacation trips together!  98. Be Prince/Princess Charming to your life mate’s parents. 99. Stand up for your life mate when someone says unkind things about them.   100. Hang out with your life mate’s friends, too.
	101. Take showers together.  102 Hot tubs are great.
	103. Work out together-tell each other you want them around for a life time!  104. Tell your spouse what life would be like without him.  105. Tell your wife you appreciate her having your children.   106. Tell your wife that she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to. And mean it. 107. Tell your life mate you love the way they look right after they’ve fallen asleep, with their head in your lap.

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